You seek help with your relationship because:
- You feel insignificant
- Respect has been lost
- Problem-solving is non-existent
- Discussions end in conflict
- Anger blocks communication
The good feelings that brought the two of you together no longer drive your relationship and you don’t know how to heal the wounds.
In effective couple’s therapy, it’s important to understand how both of your feelings, strengths and histories contribute to what is occurring.
As each of you grown over time, your relationship must also evolve to adapt to the changes. While it’s never possible or even desirable to “get back to where we once were,” it’s necessary to periodically redefine your relationship at a higher level to recognize and appreciate who each of you have become. When this is accomplished, new levels of fulfillment can be attained.